Last Updated on 23/07/2024 by wccexam Desk
Jude Bacalso is a notable figure in Cebu, Philippines, recognized as a writer, former television personality, and host. Bacalso is also a proud member of the LGBTQIA community, which has become particularly relevant in light of a recent incident that sparked significant online debate regarding misgendering and treatment of individuals in public spaces.
The Misgendering Incident
On July 21, 2024, Bacalso was involved in a controversy at a restaurant in Ayala Center Cebu, where a server allegedly addressed him as “sir.” This incident was highlighted in a Facebook post by John Calderon, who described how the server stood in front of Bacalso for nearly two hours in a formal stance known as “parade rest,” which is typically used by soldiers. Calderon expressed discomfort at the situation and intervened, asking Bacalso what was happening. Bacalso reportedly responded sarcastically, indicating that the issue should be addressed with the server directly.
The post quickly went viral, receiving over 60,000 reactions and leading to a heated discussion online. Many criticized Bacalso for the way the situation was handled, suggesting that the prolonged stance of the server was inappropriate punishment for the misgendering.
Bacalso’s Response
In response to the backlash, Bacalso clarified the events in a now-deleted Facebook post. He acknowledged being misgendered but emphasized that he did not react with anger. Bacalso stated, “Yes, I was addressed as sir. No, I did not scream or shout at the wait staff who did… I am used to being misgendered, and if it is an honest mistake, I take that as an opportunity to educate”. He also mentioned that he had informed the restaurant’s management about the incident, suggesting that a gender sensitivity seminar could benefit their staff, especially since one of the restaurant’s owners is a transwoman.
Restaurant Management’s Reaction
The management of Ulli’s Streets of Asia, the restaurant involved, responded by stating they were addressing the incident internally. They expressed their commitment to educating their staff and ensuring a respectful environment for both guests and employees. They also affirmed their support for the server involved while acknowledging the need for better handling of such situations in the future.
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The incident involving Jude Bacalso has highlighted ongoing discussions about gender sensitivity and the treatment of individuals within the LGBTQIA community in public settings. Bacalso’s experience serves as a reminder of the importance of respectful communication and the potential for misunderstandings in diverse social environments. The reactions from both Bacalso and the restaurant management indicate a willingness to engage in dialogue and education on these critical issues.